End Emotional Outsourcing

How to Overcome Your Codependent, Perfectionist, People-Pleasing Habits and Reclaim Your Life

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By María Victoria Albina, NP, MPH

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Required reading for fans of Burnout, The Body is Not an Apology, and anyone who finds herself at the bottom of her own priority list, End Emotional Outsourcing is a feminist guide to heal codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits and reclaim your self-worth.

Do you say “yes” when you mean “no”? Do you end up in lopsided relationships, feeling resentful but not sure how to speak up? Do you feel anxious, struggle with perfectionism and imposter syndrome, or feel like you’ve lost touch with your true self?
     You’re not alone: Thousands of people, especially those of us socialized as women, struggle with Emotional Outsourcing—a term nurse practitioner and life coach María Victoria Albina coined to describe the codependent, people-pleasing, perfectionist habits that keep us stuck.
     In End Emotional Outsourcing, Albina explores the origins—both personal and systemic—of these codependent tendencies, and coaches readers through a science-backed program of thought work and somatic practices. Readers will learn to:
  • Regulate their nervous systems
  • Reframe their habitual thoughts and actions
  • Take back their time and energy
  • Improve relationships with parents, friends, and partners
  • Discover their inherent self-worth and lovability
Groundbreaking, healing, and urgent, End Emotional Outsourcing is poised to change the conversation about codependency, and help an entire generation of women step into their power.  

On Sale
Sep 30, 2025
Page Count
304 pages
Publisher
Balance
ISBN-13
9781538766439

María Victoria Albina, NP, MPH

About the Author

María-Victoria Albina, NP, MPH (she/her) is a Master Certified Somatic Life Coach, UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner and Breathwork Meditation Guide with a passion for helping humans socialized as women realize that they are their own best healers by reconnecting with their bodies and minds, so they can break free from codependency, perfectionism and peoplepleasing and reclaim their joy. She is the host of the Feminist Wellness Podcast, holds a Masters degree in Public Health from Boston University School of Public Health and a BA in Latin American Studies from Oberlin College. María-Victoria has been working in health & wellness for over 20 years and lives on occupied Munsee Lenape territory in New York’s Hudson Valley. She was a panelist at Goop Health, has been published in the Huffington Post and has been a featured guest on more than 100 podcasts, including Unf*ck Your Brain with Kara Lowentheil and Spiritual Shit with Aleah Lovely.
 

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