When Longing Becomes Your Lover

What 40 Years as a Virgin Taught Me about Intimacy, Desire, and Feminism

Contributors

By Amanda McCracken

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$28.00

Price

$37.00 CAD

Format

Hardcover

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Hardcover $28.00 $37.00 CAD

On Sale
Sep 16, 2025
Page Count
224 pages
Publisher
Worthy Books
ISBN-13
9781546008538

Amanda McCracken

About the Author

Amanda McCracken is a journalist passionate about experiences that highlight the intersection of wellness, travel, and relationships. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, Washington Post, Guardian, Vogue, National Geographic, Elle, NPR, Outside, ESPN, SELF, Runner’s World, and many others. She published her first article about longing in 2013, which led to additional articles featuring personal anecdotes and deep research and interviews with the BBC and Katie Couric. She is now considered a “limerence expert” and intimacy advocate. Her 2023 Ted Talk, “How Longing Keeps Us From Healthy Relationships,” highlights how longing can become selfsabotaging and shares how to change our patterns of longing. McCracken is also a part-time university instructor, massage therapist, triathlon coach, and competitive athlete. Raised in Cincinnati, Ohio, McCracken put down roots with her husband and daughter in Boulder, Colorado, after a trip around the world aboard the Peace Boat. 

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